When my husband gets home from work and asks me about my day I give him a condensed version of what we did for school that day and how she did and tell him her grades she's made rencently. I always ask him to acompany me to the store to buy things for projects and ask his advice on something for school. I have found a man can hardly keep himself from giving advice if you make him think you really need it. On his days off I ask him to go on little field trips with us. As for her dad he is less intrested and that is easy since when she goes to his house I simply say "Here are her books and she needs to do such and such for homework before she gets back home on Sunday" He normally rolls his eyes but I just tell him he does'nt want to be reponsible for her getting an F LOL and to make sure the work is done or she will have to stay home to complete it. I know the part about her real dad isn't what you meant but maybe it will help someome else:)
~ Nysee

