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Response to Letter to the Editor
Or...Unsympathetic Public School Teacher  
 
From:  CINDYN35 
Is this a teacher talking or the Teachers Union? Sounds like the typical "party" line to me.
 
From:  DAWNANKRUM  
I think that teachers think we who choose to home school blame them for all the problems our children are having. I am pulling my daughter out of school next year to begin homeschooling her, and I can not speak for everyone, but I do not blame her teacher for the failure of public schools. I know the teachers are over worked and under paid. I am one of those voters who do vote for higher taxes so that the schools can get more money. I believe even when my child is pulled out of public school that my tax dollars should continue to go to fund public schools for all those who are left. I feel bad that teachers are stressed and overworked, but it does not mean that I should keep my child there to be effected by it. I cant speak about all public schools, but I know the one my daughter attends is voted one of the top public schools in our area (and that is scary). My child cant even participate in an extra curricular activity without the over crowdedness of the schools effecting her experience. I feel bad for all the children in public schools, but I need to raise my child not others, it does not take a village to raise a child it takes a family. God wants our children to be educated in the home and in the church, and the public school is no where near either one. Instead of teachers taking it as a personal attack that we want to take responsibility for our own children maybe they should take a breath of relief and say "it's about time not everyone expects me to raise their child." I want to home school my child because I know that is what God wants, and I know that that is what she needs, if my daughter is going to be in the care of a stressed out teacher for eight hours a day it should be me, not some teacher who is stressed out and sometimes bitter that they have to teach and be responsible for someone else's children. I don't think that just because I am pulling my daughter out of school that I have no more responsibility to change the way things are, and I think it is unfair to assume that all homeschoolers do. I teach my child that the problems in her schools are not do to the teachers and not always the administrators, that you all work with what you have got, and I am sure many homeschoolers do the same. All I know is I want my child to learn more than what you are aloud to teach her, and there are many out there like me. I admire anyone who can do the job of teaching, and I feel for that stress you have (I run a home daycare and am only responsible for about the care and learning of 3 children during the day, I can feel for your stress), but just because we feel for your problems does not mean we should have to leave our children in those situations to be affected by them.
 
From:  JMARPLE00 
Beverly,
Your article addressed what most people feel at some point in their career - be it teaching, homeschooling, nursing, etc. It doesn't mean we give up our obligations! Articles like yours help us to cope.
I have empathy for the teacher who responded to your article. I have visited my sister's (a 5th grad PS teacher) classroom and have observed the 20 year old encyclopedias and sparse resources available to her. I have shopped with her and other teachers as they put their own money into resources for their classroom. These are dedicated people and I appreciate their efforts.
I homeschool for the following reasons:
* to incorporate religious philosophy and morality into the curriculum
* to monitor peer interactions and reduce peer pressure
* to provide a one-to-one learning environment to assure a solid knowledge base.
Good luck!
S. Lee
 
From:  JUDABARNES 
With all due respect to the teacher that wrote about his feelings of being unsympathetic to the homeschool teacher, I think that he has not walked in that person's shoes either. I was a teacher in the public and Christian school system and I was an instructor for higher education and training programs. I was also an in-service education director. I believe that the pressure a homeschool teacher feels is one the highest levels of frustration one can feel. A homeschool teacher Mom or Dad is very pressured because we have to not only meet a standard for ourselves and our child, we have to fear that the educational system imposed on us by the government is looking over our shoulder at all times and that we will be given no mercy if our children do not over achieve. A teacher of the public education system can always give the excuse that the writer of the Unsympathetic PS Teacher is giving--I am over worked and underpaid and I do not have the support of parents and I am fighting against the odds and I only get children from the bad side of town and I am doing all I can but I have too many students, and on and on if you get my "drift"--but what excuse can I give if I only have my own one or two children and they are not doing well??!! What if I am having problems with juggling a home and career and a homeschool program--no sympathy right???
 
From:  SSRHAS3  
There seems to be a "defensive" position being taken...as if to imply that all homeschoolers feel the same about public school teachers. I don't really think that's fair and I also don't feel it's necessary to take such a defensive stance. No matter what we do in life, whether we are in a career, a parent, or student...we all feel at times the stress of what we do. To state "welcome to the club" makes it sound as if homeschoolers go into this believing it's all going to be a bed of roses. Nothing in life is. And I don't believe that the majority of homeschoolers are naive enough to believe that they will not experience times of frustration, fatigue and feeling overwhelmed. This is part of life. There really is no need for you to be "sympathetic" because what was expressed was simply the truth of everyday living...we all experience stress.

Besides, the reason of taking children out of school in order to give them individualized attention is probably only one reason amongst many that parents choose to do this. And as a parent, we have a right to choose to do what is best for our children. While we all must do our part to make our voices heard in the government, we cannot use that as the basis to keep our children in school, when we believe it is in their best interest to be educated at home. Granted, teachers are underpaid but then again, homeschoolers are the most underpaid! It has little to do with "hiding their light under a bushel" and more to do with taking into their hands the education of their own children.

I personally do appreciate and always have appreciated what teachers do. I admire and respect them. At the same time, I have three children that I believe are better off being homeschooled. That decision does not mean I think otherwise of teachers. May God bless you in your work!

Stephanie R.

 
From:  TAWNEYNDAVID 
well I can understand how a public school teacher may think to some extent homeschooling teachers don't understand them and may very well feel offended by having a student pulled from their class. but there is so much more to homeschooling that he/she may have missed. we homeschool so we can have the time to just be a family, to instill our strong values, and to in some cases protect our children from violence and poor learning environments. Lets face it parents know their children. I gave the system 3 years to try to teach my son to read and they couldn't. I have taught him in 1 semester! I ask that this teacher take heart in what he/she has been able to give to the community and to also try to understand that parents who choose to homeschool are only trying to do what is best for their children and in a day and age when kids are left to their own devices too often we should praise them for taking such an interest in them.
 
From:  KLACERTE   
My father was a high school teacher for about 20 years before he retired. His mother was a teacher before him (she's got some great stories about how to handle a 1900 turn of the century classroom!).

Teaching is a difficult job, and no one does it simply for the pay or the 'career path'. That's also the very reason why we homeschool. We feel that we are our children's first and best teachers. We can pass along our values and knowledge in a way we never thought possible. And we, ourselves, can learn in the process.

Managing stress is a skill we all need to nurture. It doesn't matter if we homeschool or not. I was much more stressed in my '9-5' job before I started homeschooling than afterwards. The homeschooling gave me the focus I needed outside of my job to put everything into perspective. I found that I had strength and talents that no one could have told me I had several months ago.

This is my first homeschooling year and my 4-year-old is doing wonderfully with his kindergarten curriculum. I don't know how long I will homeschool, but I can't get this experience for him by putting him in a public school, no matter how involved I become.

There is no committee to decide which approach of teaching works best for my son. There is no group of people I rarely see choosing the books specific to educate my values into my child. It is the autonomy of our experience and the ability to individualize the learning path for each child which makes homeschooling what it is. No amount of public 'participation' would change public schools into a homeschooling environment.

 
From:  2PM   
It's interesting that the stressed public school teacher says that one of the things that "exacerbates" the problem is people pulling children out of school. It seems to me this person should be saying 'thanks' for alleviating the problem he/she is having in devoting individual time to students--instead there is a complaint that this is what should cause the home school teacher to help lobby for More funding for the public schools? (Pay me more because my problem is now somewhat easier for me, but too bad for you??) Interesting 'logic.'
a satisfied home school parent
 
From:  BBIGELOW1 
1. HE is being paid for his JOB, and he obviously HATES IT!
2. Welcome to the Club??? Homeschoolers are doing the jobs of the teachers and parents, and we do not get paid for it! This man is so pathetic.
3. I would not want this angry person teaching my children.
4. It is obvious that he feels threatened. Is HE hiding something? I think so, and he should see a therapist about it.
5. When a family decides to homeschool their child, EVERYONE hears about it, including the so-called higher-ups; therefore, it is sending a message for ALL children.
It is reasonable to suggest that we do for all, but to suggest that we do so by keeping our children in school, to permit the current system to continue to inadequately teach our children WHILE we fight for what is right for everyone, is simply unreasonable.
6. Schools have not always been overcrowded, but the quality of teaching has been the same for a very long time. In the very beginning, it was just a necessity, and teachers taught just for that reason -- to teach!
Then it was realized by a few, then more, then many, many more, that teaching meant: summer vacations, starting work at 9:00, leaving work at 3:00, all school vacations, all school holidays, not to mention time-off benefits in their pay. Who could ask for more!!
We are REQUIRED BY LAW to have our children in school for a certain number of hours. This means whoever they are exposed to has influence on them. The teachers and administration WANT this power, BUT they do not want to share in the -- BAGGAGE -- that comes with the job. This is not what they took the job for.
Well guess what. . . take a good long look at what your job is supposed to be. It is supposed to be a lot more than what is given to our children, and to us!!
I could go on and on. . .but I have lessons to review again for my children for tomorrow. Then I have to work to help support my family, and help pay the taxes for the schools that my children cannot get a decent education in!!!!
 
From:  TOWERBUG  
.....AND FURTHERMORE>>>> Some people don't like the Skinnerian methods of teaching and the Hegelian Dialectics that are being presented in public schools.

"While government schools spend an average of $5,325 per student per year to attain a 50th percentile performance ranking among the states, $1.5 million home-schooled children cost U.S. families only about $400 per student annually, to achieve test scores averaging 25 percent higher at the 75th percentile. In the largest research study to date, completed this year by Dr. Lawrence Rudner of the ERIC Clearinghouse on Assessment and Evaluation, the average eighth grade homeschooled student performs four grade levels above the national average. This outstanding academic performance by home-educated students makes homeschooling an attractive alternative to the traditional classroom. Home-schooling involves one-on-one instruction - known to be an ideal format in which to learn. With the efficiency of individual instruction, and without the distractions of a crowded classroom, parents often find their children accomplish more academic work in less time."
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