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Response to Letter to the Editor
Or...Unsympathetic Public School Teacher  
 
From:  LGOLTL 
You know, I get so tired of public school teachers complaining they need more money. I have been on both sides of the fence. I am an elementary school teacher by degree and license, and I also homeschool. We keep throwing money at schools and teachers, yet the situation does not get any better. We need to hold the schools, teachers, and administrators responsible. If children are not learning up to par, then the school should have so long to fix the problem or start losing federal money.

I remember being a senior in high school, 15 years ago. Our school blew the entire budget buying the football team new uniforms. There was no money for new books, the elementary grade students didn't get to take any field trips, teachers were limited to so many copies per week and so much paper per week, and things like that. This school also complained of a lack of money, but they had more than enough for new uniforms. It is the same now as it was then, they get the money, spend it, and then want more.

 
From:  MASCOGGY 
Greetings
Being a PTA president and also a frustrated parent who even though my children go to public schools teach my children as though I am a homeschooling parent. I agree with the teacher. Many times I have wanted to take my children out of the public school system. But it is their right to have a good education from the government. I choose to take a stand and fight for the whole student body because those are the same children who will play with my children and possibly marry my children in the future. So I choose to fight the battles in order to win the war. But in the meantime I also have a backup, I supplement their learning.
 
From: SOLJZ 
My hat is off to all the mothers who have expressed their concerns to this individual who seems to be less motivated.

I am a father, who withdrew all three of my children do to a ps teacher indicating that my daughter was too slow to learn. This is not what you tell a father who sees his daughter as the apple of his eye. It took a Christian private school and a m2m program (majority to minority) school teacher to realize that my daughter had a lot of potential, providing these teachers had something that you lack...motivation, creativeness, and drive. Since then she's been tested for tag. Now keep in mind, I don't knock all ps teachers because my mom retired as one, but she didn't lack in the area of motivating the students. She dared them to dream.

My son's fifth grade ps teacher was passing him with A's and B's when he was misspelling words in just about everything. We were told that the Board of Edu. instructed that these kids had to be passed. I don't think so! Then we were discouraged from the idea of keeping him back due to him not learning. Now if my son gets up and walks around the class room for no reason, then he is bored. Where's the challenge to the kids who tends to excel quicker than others.

Now, my main reason for homeschooling my children is simple... "Teach a child a way that they should go and they will not depart from it..." (The Book of Proverbs). I choose the principles of the bible which the government only chooses to acknowledge only fall short in their abilities. We teach our children to acknowledge the Lord Jesus Christ in everything and give thanks. I choose these principles to homeschool over the fact what ps teaches them. I think abstinence from sex until marriage is better than saying just practice safe sex for an 11 year old, "What do you think?"

Don't take it personal unsympathetic, but we just love our children and the security of who they will become better than the complaining that you are doing. I'd like to know that my children know how to fish instead of being lazy and looking for a hand out. Even a worker ant puts back for a rainy day.

I praise God for giving us an opportunity to homeschool than some places, some people have no choice but to keep their child in ps but we have the choice to homeschool ours.

Solomon, II

 
From:  JCURRY29 
This teacher is obviously trying to protect his job. If enough parents catch on to the homeschooling way of life there is a threat of job security for school teachers. Homeschooling is not to make life easier for the parents, it is often is more challenging. Homeschooling is about individualized teaching for individual children. This is something that is rarely if ever done in the public schools. I can understand that in the public schools it is the luck of the draw. Sometimes as a teacher you get a great bunch of kids who are at almost the same academic level even better if you have parent involvement. This combination makes for an excellent year. Sadly this a rarity and not the "norm". The "norm" usually consists of an oversized classroom where the children who cry out for help receive the best education, that is if they can conform their learning skills to fit the teaching methods. This teacher needs to understand that even though he went to college to be a teacher and he may be by the politically correct standards and excellent, dedicated teacher, he is not the "best teacher" for all students. If there is another way to teach a child and provide the best education for that child it should be respected. The fact is public school education does work for some people, who am I to put down someone else's choice. Personally I am a supporter of homeschooling but I am sending my five year old to a private Christian school this fall. I am recently married and newly pregnant. Our baby will be due in the fall and we will also be in the middle of a move. Besides the fact that I anticipate friction from my son's joint custodial father if I homeschool, I know that this year involves too many changes and inconsistencies to provide a good education at home. I may change my mind next year but this coming fall the best choice for my son is to not homeschool. Isn't this what it is all about, The best choice for our children? Good Luck with your letter and God Bless.
 
From:  HOWIETAM 
In the first place the letter was very rude, but that's beside the point. My response is this: What are we supposed to do in the meantime while we are waiting for the government to make these situations? Leave our children in that situation? I chose to take immediate action for the sake of my children.
 
From:  KATBMOM 
This response to the "unsympathetic PS teacher" will not be a well thought out & organized letter--I don't have the time for that--but I wanted to respond nonetheless. I didn't pull my children out of public school because I thought all the teachers were doing a poor job. I had a wonderful relationship with my children's teachers. However, even at their best, they could not do what I could do with my children. I have an advantage. I taught them how to communicate. I know their learning styles. I can & do give them individual attention. The list goes on & on. I am not criticizing teachers by homeschooling my children. I thank God for teachers who are there to teach the children whose parents cannot or do not want to homeschool.
In addition to being a homeschool teacher, I am also a nurse by night. We deal with being overworked and underpaid also. The patient load continues to grow. We are taught that patients know their own bodies best & we should listen to them. In the case of pediatric patients, the parents know their bodies best. We teach people in the hospitals & in the communities how to take care of themselves. A lot of people take care of their chronically ill family at home rather than place them in hospitals or nursing homes. The nerve of them!!! Do they think they can do a better job at home than taking them to a hospital to have a "professional" take care of them??? Of course they can!!! They alone have the time, commitment & love to take care of that patient in the best way possible. They love that patient enough to get the best information to do their job & to seek help if they need it. When they need it, I am there to encourage & help them. Do I tell them, "Now you know what I go through everyday, sob sob?" No! I encourage them. I try to lift them up & let MY light shine.
 
From:  MERCEDESMOM 
I just wanted to say that I am a new homeschooling mom and although that was ONE of the many reasons I pulled my child out of public school, overcrowded classrooms and stressed teachers were not my biggest concern. My child simply learns better when she is not treated like a number who is 'slow', 'average' or 'gifted'. The curriculum public schools use is based on the AVERAGE child and not all children learn best when being taught by it. I also want to say that throwing more money into public schools does not and has not worked. Here in Colorado many amendments have passed in the last few years trying to fund our schools better. Nothing has changed because funding is NOT the problem!! The problem is the 'John and Jane Doe' curriculum!!

By the way, to the unsympathetic public school teacher, I would like to say that work is stressful! It does not matter if you are a doctor, lawyer, construction worker, teacher or anything in between. Everyone is entitled to feeling a bit stressed now and then who needs some advice. But I am sure that anyone who has decided to homeschool their children has thought it through and knows it is best for their child. Keep up the good work all you home schoolers!! I have faith that our children will have better educations than the children who attend the finest public school in the nation!!

Marlena

 
From:  CandaceT
My primary responsibility is to MY CHILD. While it is all well and good to argue for increased funding for education for all children (that in itself is debatable), by the time any real improvements to public schools take effect, it could be years from now. That might be too late for MY CHILD. If I have a third grader who is having trouble reading, and the proposed, hoped-for improvements take 6 years to be realized, MY CHILD might be a 9th grader who still can't read well, and is far behind on history, geography, science, math, etc. because she has missed out. Why should I leave her in a failing system? So she can be used as a statistic to get you a pay increase? I don't think so.

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